This thing is rarely happens when I decide to write few lines about something. I am not a writer even not having good communication skills. I can't play with words but I still wanna bring everyone's attention here. Why it is ever happens in our India every man wants to have a girlfriend but always want to have a bride who never had any past affair. Most of the men normally founded doing chit-chat about the girls like - low jeans, transparent top, bad character etc. kind of rubbish talk but we can't tolerate that someone treated our sisters, friends & relatives with the same way. I am just sick and tired now with our dual mentality. We are running towards western culture with the speed of light but by favoring eastern culture we are just showing our orthodox nature. I am just so confuse who we are and what we want to be? What is the exact reason behind our this dual nature? Or is it just our ego? We born in a male dominating country may be this is also one of the many reasons that we always pushing or trying to push women down. Women are not any ordinary creature of nature, They are the base of our society, culture, civilization even they are also responsible for our existence in this world. So if we guys can't show respect to them then we do not have any right to say anything about human and humanity because we still do not know anything about being a human. We are just an stigma on the name of human being.Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Indian Dual Mentality
This thing is rarely happens when I decide to write few lines about something. I am not a writer even not having good communication skills. I can't play with words but I still wanna bring everyone's attention here. Why it is ever happens in our India every man wants to have a girlfriend but always want to have a bride who never had any past affair. Most of the men normally founded doing chit-chat about the girls like - low jeans, transparent top, bad character etc. kind of rubbish talk but we can't tolerate that someone treated our sisters, friends & relatives with the same way. I am just sick and tired now with our dual mentality. We are running towards western culture with the speed of light but by favoring eastern culture we are just showing our orthodox nature. I am just so confuse who we are and what we want to be? What is the exact reason behind our this dual nature? Or is it just our ego? We born in a male dominating country may be this is also one of the many reasons that we always pushing or trying to push women down. Women are not any ordinary creature of nature, They are the base of our society, culture, civilization even they are also responsible for our existence in this world. So if we guys can't show respect to them then we do not have any right to say anything about human and humanity because we still do not know anything about being a human. We are just an stigma on the name of human being.
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very true Ravi, i just hope one day every man has a same thought!!!
ReplyDeleteHey.Its good to read some words here...Still, We can’t ignore the fact-''Every Person has his own respectable views'.Hereby, I declare that You have good thoughts and views.But My Dear Friend, If You seriously can accept my views on the same topic.I would be saying, There’s a clause that You forget to mention.See,I accept women are responsible for our existence in this world, But Just think my dear..Can it be possible without a man.?Ofcourse,We don’t have same mentality for our sis, mom etc as we have for our gfrns or other female...But My dear..If we will assume every female on this globe as our sister..Then It can be the best formula to stop the population of this world. A person needs all in his life..A mom to admire, sister to care and gfrn for love as well...all these three can’t be compared with each other.Of course ,A man can’t treat his wife as his sister and If he will be doing this, You can think of the result.Like Food, water, air.Sex is also the need of a human body and we can’t ignore it by saying that we are cultured and all.Sex is basic need of body But Its true we must wait for the right moment to express it..But It doesn’t mean that We must avoid it every time even when we are alone in night with our wife.Also, I strictly object that this country is male dominating country.I suppose that The Writer of this article must be having a female Boss at his workstation and If He has not, Most probably He will be having it soon in life...Today, Girls are sitting on topmost designations in each department. They are not same kind of girls as They used to be in earlier days.Now, they are beating the boys in many fields. They run their Home, They earn for their children, they have their own independent views and thinking that A male can’t rule on them now a days. Lets have an example-If you have guts, You can slap on a face of a male in a rushed market but Can you do this with a female, If you will be doing it, The whole market will try to kill you.Police administration, courts, women cells all are there to support women...For married wives, Law has a section-498A of dowry act. When women file a case under this section against her husband...A male will forget to go to loo in the morning under the legal pressures.Sometimes Judges in court doesn’t listen to your point and directly give judgment in favor of female.If I register a case of murder against you..May be you can get some relief from court.But if a girl will file a case of Rape against you, Nobody is going to save you my dear.This is what girls are now a days..Its the other matter, A report has declared ''Most of the dowry and rape cases are false cases that are registered by girls just to harass the boys''.Friends ,Its time to Raise the issue of Humanism,Terrorism,Corruption,Expensive Markets,Poverty,Social Support,Equality,Unemployments,Education etc including Love so that All can live happily in our Loving country India...All Youngsters must go for these issues. Its not a time of Girls vs Boys. Its time to work for the nation and work for the society with unitCome on Girls,Now,Stop Raising the issue of Your equality, You have already got a lot.Now, Come and join hands with us to work for the nation,work for the society.
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Devrishi Malik
Thanks Anu & well said Dev I got to know that you have a pretty interesting view about women but you still don't understand the feeling behind this article. I am not going to say that we have to become brother of every alive female on the planet but we can show some respect to them as we are showing to our sisters & mothers. One more thing don't worry about me, I am not going to delete any comment(except the comment contains prohibited words) so feel free to comment....
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Ravi Kumar Mishra